Since yesterday’s post was such a Debbie Downer, I figured I’d keep it light and dig up an old poll question. So here’s one that I found:
Are you willing to be tied up during sex, tie your partner up or both?
8% said they prefer to be the one who gets tied up
44% said that they’d tie their partner up but, them? Not so much.
46% were down for it either way
For the record, I find it very encouraging to see that so many people are pushing the limits in their sex lives. Personally? I don’t know how…
Why? Cause we all know negroes are tricky. And not for nothing, I kinda need to feel like I can always get up and be out at a moment’s notice. Not to mention, I’ve never been one of those chicks that has S&M fantasies. Don’t get me wrong- I’m all for the dress up (gotta keep it interesting) but I just don’t feel the need for anyone to pretend to kidnap, rape, arrest, force me into bondage etc. At. All.
Call me old fashioned, but there’s just something very effeminate about a man that really, really wants to be tied up. Think about it. Uh-huh, that’s what I thought.
Real talk? Most men that I’ve been intimate with are cool with a little bit of role playing and domination when we’re getting it on but all them handcuff games? No ma’am. Not even on a dare…
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I think I agree with you- when I think of a man being tied up, I see one of those red balls being wedged in his mouth. Honestly, it might be fun to tie him up but my eyebrows might raise if he asks out of the blue…