Comments on: not really that funny…

By: Caryn Reed-Hendon

Caryn Reed-Hendon — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 12:48:33 +0000

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By: cocoamommy

cocoamommy — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 06:46:05 +0000

This is their business indeed but when you give a pass, is there a maximum on the number of passes. In my view the sanctity of marriage has just flown out of the window.

By: Maria

Maria — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 14:05:39 +0000

Eh-whatever floats your boat I suppose. However-the fact that she has not stepped out on her marriage when ( presumably ) he has , in my opinion, lends itself to theory of compromise of self and principles in order to SAY you are a wife. Hell-why get married ??

By: Redbonegirl97

Redbonegirl97 — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:10:22 +0000

I agree, it's their business and only their busines. Now open marriage is another issue, which I don't get but if it floats your boat then good for you. Not my thang.

Tiffany
http://liferequiresmorechocolate.blogspot.com

By: CJ

CJ — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 23:13:16 +0000

I'm with the above. I see it more as what they have (a friendship since high school and babies) is bigger than a little fling he may have. I hate that she keeps saying it. Like, thats all cool. But if thats what works for yall, do it, and keep it to yourself. Im sure their vows didnt say "forsaking all others, well most others" . . .

By: joan

joan — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 20:21:16 +0000

Ditto Divalocity's comments. Monique's talked about this extensively in the past and the context here is a little askew. What she has said in the past is that infidelity is not a dealbreaker, which is not quite the same as a free pass.
Quite honestly, she's not unique here. There are MANY grown folk who have been married for a long time that feel the same way. Forever is a long

By: Divalocity

Divalocity — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:50:29 +0000

This is not news, it may be for those who've never read the article or were never fans of Monique or those who want to spread what they deem as gossip. I do understand why this is now an issue because she's now reaching the top tier in her career and her marketability factor has gone up. I read about this years ago when she first married the man.Undoubtedly she wasn't a big enough

By: Marissa

Marissa — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:20:38 +0000

No, I felt the same way when I read it awhile back. And I have had my side-eye on him since… He seems a bit cavalier to me… Always kinda half smirking…
On her part, it sounds like an excuse to forgive his infidelities upfront. Like he said to her, "Look, I love you but I could never be faithful. If you cool with that, then we can get married." So she agreed cause she