http://www.mitzimoments.com/2010/02/16/actually-it-is-a-popularity-contest/ Sat, 09 Apr 2011 04:17:41 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.37 http://www.mitzimoments.com/2010/02/16/actually-it-is-a-popularity-contest/#comment-1148 Wed, 17 Feb 2010 13:58:39 +0000 http://mitzimiller.com/?p=393#comment-1148 You've made some good points. But there is always the possibility that he hates his family too. So even if they hate you, hey, at least you're in it together. And maybe they live far away so the holiday thing is a moot point. As for the wedding – you'd be surrounded by friends and your family (who I'm assuming are awesome to both of you) so you shove his family in a dark corner

]]> http://www.mitzimoments.com/2010/02/16/actually-it-is-a-popularity-contest/#comment-1147 Tue, 16 Feb 2010 20:43:54 +0000 http://mitzimiller.com/?p=393#comment-1147 Both are bad…and it both cases, the longevity of the relationship is doomed, sad to say. Longterm relationships, don't exist in a vacuum. They take the support of a community especially with children. Friends seem better but this is the thing..your partners friends are a reflection of who he is. Whatever it is that you don't like about them or they you is GUARANTEED to manifest as

]]> http://www.mitzimoments.com/2010/02/16/actually-it-is-a-popularity-contest/#comment-1146 Tue, 16 Feb 2010 18:59:29 +0000 http://mitzimiller.com/?p=393#comment-1146 I'm w/you on the family tip. What if you and the fam are super tight but his boy from 3rd grade that he's super cool with hate yo guts?? That scenario can still make things sticky.

]]> http://www.mitzimoments.com/2010/02/16/actually-it-is-a-popularity-contest/#comment-1145 Tue, 16 Feb 2010 18:30:50 +0000 http://mitzimiller.com/?p=393#comment-1145 I would have initially said friends, but by God, you've convinced me that family would be even worse.

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