Comments on: the more things stay the same…

By: Gypsy

Gypsy — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 22:23:00 +0000

I agee it’s ok to pass them around. Look black men as too scare to try and hoard. get over it!

By: Soul Mate

Soul Mate — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 04:37:00 +0000

Yeah well some people treasure trash more than others. We tend to get comfy wit jump-off for conveience, as time permits if its nothing but sex it’ll play out anyway or face the dredded ATTACHMENT. As far as friends go never wife the JUMP-OFF!

By: joan

joan — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 23:01:00 +0000

Girl, we’ve had two years of discussion of how I feel about this post so need to recap here. But thank you, seriously for pointing out how mindlessly posessive and obsessive getting territorial over your jump-off is. Not too mention that you also end up as "the bitch is crazy" brunt of all his friends when he’s retelling the story over drinks with his boys. And trust he’s retelling the story cuz

By: Danita

Danita — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 21:45:00 +0000

One time for that unmistakable "What’s good?" text! LOL.

By: swirlgirls

swirlgirls — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 20:19:00 +0000

I’d be mad if it was someone that I was really serious about, and was with for years, etc.

I’ve had the same situation as Anonymous where I lost a good friend. She started a dating a good friend of mine (I connected them) and they had a falling out after about a month. I starting dating the friend I hooked up her with; things happen when you’ve known someone for a long time. I was

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 13:29:00 +0000

I agree!! Unless this was a man I was engaged to, was in a relationship with for about 3 years or have a child with, any other man I was with is fair game to my friends.

I have a friend who got mad at me once because a guy she went on a date with 3 years prior (no kiss or sex) called me. I didn’t know she knew him and she didn’t even remember his name!! She is such a HATER!! We

By: bourgieadventures

bourgieadventures — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 11:29:00 +0000

First, I love that you use the term "pinktoes"!!! I have a country NC friend who says that all of the time too.

I’m with you though, I could care less what a get busy buddy was doing after we finished knocking. I mean, that’s what you get a relationship for. Otherwise, why are you keeping tabs? I’m young, I need to date. I need to see what’s out there. I want to settle eventually, but